Writer: Grandma Tishbi

A letter to Havenshine fans:

Let me introduce myself. My name is Grandma Tishbi. I am a 69 year old Russian immigrant who was recently introduced to the world of the Internet by my adopted grandson, Alphonse Dolly. I have been intrigued by the wonderful world of Havenshine. I enjoy the many features that the site has to offer. I have decided to offer my life’s experiences to the many readers of this site. I know that I can offer better advice than Ann Landers or Dear Abby. I am an avid TV fan and I love the movies. If you think that you would like to read more about me and my experiences please let me know. I hope to hear from you soon.

Your babushka,
Grandma Tishbi

Dear Will,

One should always follow one’s heart. It seems from your question that you have strong feelings for a girl that lives overseas. Have you actually ever met her in person, or has this been strictly a long distance relationship through internet and/or phone conversations? Does she have the same feelings about you? You state that settling for someone closer would be easier and less expensive. However, would you be happy? These are questions that only you can answer. If you feel strongly about this overseas relationship, then you should not settle for anything less. Do not jump at any quick decision. Do not let your current financial situation dictate your future life, love, and happiness. Time is in your favor. Talk to this girl about your feelings (and her feelings). True love always seems to find its way. Be patient, and communicate honestly with one another. It seems that the best course of action will make itself known.

I wish you the best. Please let me know how you will proceed.

Best Wishes,

Your Babushka,

Grandma Tishbi

Dear Havenshine fan,

Yes, I am Russian. I was born in Groznyy, the capital of Chechnya in southwest Russia.

Your Bubushka,
Grandma Tishbi

Dear Becky,

Every parent I know has had to answer this question in one form or another. Is there a Santa Claus? The best answer to this question was written by veteran newspaperman, Francis P. Church, back on September 21, 1897, on the editorial page of the New York Sun. Eight-year-old Virginia O’Hanlon had asked her father this very same question: Is there a Santa Claus? Her father told her to write to the newspaper asking this question. He told her that they would definitely know the answer. Attached you can read the original answer. After you read the article I think you will agree with me that “YES” there is a Santa Claus. Please read this most historical response to this question. Please explain to your daughter that Santa exists. We don’t have to see him to believe. The world is full of amazing things. These things make our lives enjoyable, happy, and wonderful. These things make our lives worth living. Santa Claus lives in the many wonderful holiday traditions that bring us joy and wonderment in our lives. All we need to know is that deep down in our heart we know Santa exists.

I believe that your daughter will understand the meaning of Santa Claus, and will always have a warm loving feeling in her heart for Santa.

Best Wishes,
Your Babushka,
Grandma Tishbi

Dear James,

My best advice to you is to contact the U. S. government web site and investigate what the requirements are in visiting the country (or countries) that you plan to visit. There are a variety of requirements and restrictions that may affect your plans. In most cases each country has its own set of rules. The U.S. government web site would be the first place I would try. Also, you might try the government web sites for the actual countries that you plan to visit.

I wish you a pleasant and safe trip.

Your babushka,
Grandma Tishbi

Dear Someone,

Unfortunately you are having a problem that many other people also face. It is difficult to explain why some bosses never treat their employees with respect. It could be a sense of power over their workers. It might even be possible that he doesnʼt realize his cold actions toward you. The fact that you state that you are an illegal immigrant may certainly contribute to the way your boss treats you. Regardless of the reason behind his actions, your question indicates that you are seeking a way to have your boss appreciate your work. It may be difficult to change how you boss feels about you, however, if you are working to the best of your ability, it will give him less reason to dislike you. Try being a friendly, efficient, and productive worker. If your attitude is positive, it may rub off on him. He may never like you, but you know that you are a worker who does his job with pride and dignity.

Wishing you the best,
Your Bubushka,
Grandma Tishbi